Money is an uncomfortable thing to think about when someone dies, but knowing who pays for what — and what help exists — can take a great deal of worry out of the arrangements.
The usual order
- 1Check for a pre-paid funeral plan first — it may cover most or all of the cost.
- 2Check whether the person's bank will release funds. Many banks pay a funeral director's invoice directly from the person's account, before probate.
- 3Otherwise, the person arranging the funeral usually pays and reclaims the cost from the estate. Funeral costs take priority over most other debts.
Help with costs
- Funeral Expenses Payment (England, Wales and Northern Ireland) — for people on certain benefits
- Funeral Support Payment (Scotland) — the Scottish equivalent
- Bereavement Support Payment — for some husbands, wives and civil partners
- Some charities and trade unions offer grants in particular circumstances
If there is no money
If the estate cannot cover the funeral and family cannot pay, the local council must arrange a simple, respectful funeral. You can also choose a direct cremation to keep costs to a minimum while arranging your own memorial separately.